The Space Is Now a Person
This unique emptiness that we feel because of our child or special person now absent here can be devastatingly isolating. Very few will relate to how what everyone will call emptiness is the person we hold close and want to never let go.
We don't have to. And no matter how lonely it makes you feel, others like us are here to hold this space, this love, and share.
My journey to becoming a thought coach halted abruptly when Aabi passed. I lost the sense of merit in whatever I was doing. I do realise that, no matter how much we run or escape, we have to come face-to-face with the reality that children die. The unfairness of this world and life is very much for real.
But we needn't have to understand everything unfair.
Thoughts are powerful gateways to places unknown. I am here to acknowledge them, and we can face it together. Please reach out.
Bereaved Siblings Community
If you have a child who has lost a sibling at an age where they are aware of the absence that has suddenly become a part of their lives, please find me. I know how my 12-year-old's world has crashed with Aabi not being here. The voice and happiness of the house vanished in a blink.
Their developing brains need more than parental care and love to keep living this every day. Shared experiences, or merely being in the company of those who share the same missing, can be massively helpful.
We are here to build those special friendships where loving your siblings and keeping them in the present will not be as tough, yet most welcome.