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Raising a Child While Grieving for a Lost One: The Cruelty of Everyday Navigation
What is a Mother's Sole Desire? A mother's sole desire is to raise her children in the best circumstances possible, providing them with...

Anjuman Ahuja
Sep 7, 20256 min read
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A Message of Love
Dearest Aabi You will always live in our hearts. I always wished for you to come and cuddle with me, but you often hid behind your mom....
Sudershan Manga
Sep 3, 20252 min read
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Love Is Forever - Just Like You
My darling daughter, Aabi. It is August, the month when our lives changed forever. We welcomed you, a beautiful baby girl, who completed...

Anjuman Ahuja
Aug 25, 20254 min read
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Dedication From a Little Friend
I have written the below as a dedication to Aabi: I never knew that one-year-olds could be best friends. I always thought children that...
Mary Lannigan
Aug 20, 20252 min read
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Message of Love With Love
Dear Aabi, our little girl and biggest bundle of joy You were just 5 months and 20 hours old when I first entered the house, and Bhabhi...
Shilpi Taparia Ahuja
Aug 17, 20252 min read
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The Smallest Footprints Leave the Deepest Impressions!!
There are words no one should ever have to write, emotions no heart should ever have to bear. Yet here I am, trying to give shape to the...
Shweta Arora
Aug 13, 20252 min read
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To Have It All Over Again
Dear darling baby, Aabi I am here again, with empty hands and aching arms, witnessing days that are painful in new ways. The need and...

Anjuman Ahuja
Aug 10, 20255 min read
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Thinking About You - A Grandmother in Pain
Your Birthday Month, Aabi Dear Aabi, this is your special birthday month, and I can't help but reflect on the joy we felt during your 2nd...
Sukhneer Arora
Aug 6, 20252 min read
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Realisations of a Bereaved Mother
Dear Aabi Days pass without you, and I constantly yearn to hold you. I experience pain, emotionally, physically, and in all aspects how...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jul 31, 20254 min read
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What Am I Now?
Building Our Identities We spend our lives building our identities, our personalities, our image, relationships, career, and a home. As...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jul 21, 20254 min read
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Unanswered Questions
It has been over two months since I lost my beloved granddaughter Aabi: Naani's little jaan. Visiting Perth Children's Hospital today...
Sukhneer Arora
Jul 18, 20252 min read
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Everything Has a Reason: Does it?
We often go about our daily lives, experiencing a million moments, both good and bad. As a society that believes in a creator and a...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jul 11, 20253 min read
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Dear Aabi
My dear little baby, I sit down today to express feelings I am unable to share directly with you. Things I want to say to you, but do not...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jul 3, 20253 min read
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Holding The Space
The passing days after my younger daughter left us are filled with gloom. As parents who lose a little child, these are heavy in every...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jun 29, 20253 min read
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Losing Your Child: The Acute Phase
Acute feelings of pain from a bereaved mother

Anjuman Ahuja
Jun 24, 20254 min read
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Your Grieving Naani
I lost my small bundle of joy and energy...my Aabi ...She was so small.. just two and a half years old. I'm here, Naani, her granny. I...
Sukhneer Arora
Jun 23, 20251 min read
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So Little and for Such Little Time
When a baby is born in your house, everyone gets a new life. There is so much to look forward to. Every moment seems to be a significant...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jun 20, 20253 min read
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Feeling and Living the Loss
Understanding the Pain of Loss Every day after our dear loved one has left us, we are confronted with profound questions. What does this...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jun 19, 20254 min read
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