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To Have It All Over Again
Dear darling baby, Aabi I am here again, with empty hands and aching arms, witnessing days that are painful in new ways. The need and...

Anjuman Ahuja
Aug 10, 20255 min read


Thinking About You - A Grandmother in Pain
Your Birthday Month, Aabi Dear Aabi, this is your special birthday month, and I can't help but reflect on the joy we felt during your 2nd...
Sukhneer Arora
Aug 6, 20252 min read


Realisations of a Bereaved Mother
Dear Aabi Days pass without you, and I constantly yearn to hold you. I experience pain, emotionally, physically, and in all aspects how...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jul 31, 20254 min read


What Am I Now?
Building Our Identities We spend our lives building our identities, our personalities, our image, relationships, career, and a home. As...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jul 21, 20254 min read


Unanswered Questions
It has been over two months since I lost my beloved granddaughter Aabi: Naani's little jaan. Visiting Perth Children's Hospital today...
Sukhneer Arora
Jul 18, 20252 min read


Everything Has a Reason: Does it?
We often go about our daily lives, experiencing a million moments, both good and bad. As a society that believes in a creator and a...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jul 11, 20253 min read


Dear Aabi
My dear little baby, I sit down today to express feelings I am unable to share directly with you. Things I want to say to you, but do not...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jul 3, 20253 min read


Holding The Space
The passing days after my younger daughter left us are filled with gloom. As parents who lose a little child, these are heavy in every...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jun 29, 20253 min read


Losing Your Child: The Acute Phase
Acute feelings of pain from a bereaved mother

Anjuman Ahuja
Jun 24, 20254 min read


Your Grieving Naani
I lost my small bundle of joy and energy...my Aabi ...She was so small.. just two and a half years old. I'm here, Naani, her granny. I...
Sukhneer Arora
Jun 23, 20251 min read


So Little and for Such Little Time
When a baby is born in your house, everyone gets a new life. There is so much to look forward to. Every moment seems to be a significant...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jun 20, 20253 min read


Feeling and Living the Loss
Understanding the Pain of Loss Every day after our dear loved one has left us, we are confronted with profound questions. What does this...

Anjuman Ahuja
Jun 19, 20254 min read
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